I go agility, first points in archery and both stealth skills, you can one shot a dog on day one.
Usually go strength for the tools mainly, point in clubs straight away.
I play perma death, took a few runs to get the hang of it. Sneaking is what keeps you alive, both for the extra damage and limiting engagements, also best to sneak in POI's just incase a bear is walking past, don't want one of those chasing you!
I always build my own base, near the trader, 9x9, floor 6 blocks high, usually have the first 2 layers cobble on day one but most of it is still frames, if you crouch in the middle 6 blocks up a bear can walk right bye and not notice you.
Bears are your worst problem, always have many stones on your tool belt to throw and distract them.
Priorities are all different, looting is much slower there's no oil shale to mine, no flowers for teas, no tree stumps for honey, stuff like that.
Cloth armour or leather/military if you have any muffled connector mods, need to be quiet.
The stealth skills are key, the damage multiplier and noise reduction keep you alive.
You're going to need as much ammo as possible for horde night, and a few fall back positions, it's insane.